Sunday, March 22, 2009

Meeting Dr. James Miser

Today I finally have the chance to meet Dr. James Miser at GBC. Last December, 2008 ~ a sister from my Taipei church told me about Dr. Miser was planning to come to Taipei in March 2009. I was puzzled by this name and I did some research... He is actually a world renowned pediatric oncologist. For one, I am not in the medical field, nor am I into cancer research or pediatrician (children doctor) to know who Dr. Miser is. Needless to say, as I researched some more about him and the field of pediatric oncology, I came to understand and learn a little bit more about the profession of oncologist, the research of pediatric oncology. Moreover most importantly why my big sister wanted to introduce him to our church and to Pastors Jim West or Stephen Lee... Actually Dr. Miser has a significant heart to serve in orphanage ministry in Taiwan. You see he is the father of 10 adopted children in Taiwan. He comes to Taiwan frequently to hold seminars at local hospitals.

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Meeting with brother Tim who is in charge of orphanage ministry at GBC.

Through his Mission Care ministry, he looks to place orphans into Christian families. He shared that through his many networks, whether it is medical or financial, the one significant aspect of these children is really to have a good Christian home and family to adopt them. In Taiwan, it is still a difficult concept to adopt children... and developing this Christian home network to adopt them will be a great hope for these children.

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(Dr. Miser Meeting with Frances, Nick and Pastor West)

Dr James Miser, is former CEO and Chief Medical Officer of City of Hope National Medical Center in California. The chief mission of City of Hope is to find cure through research for life threatening cancers and one of the mission to help children cope with these ailments through treatments. ( I think Dr. J. will be happy to meet up with Dr. Miser someday especially in the field of medical oncology research. )

On a side note... Pastor West preached about James 1:19-20... and Dr. Miser was in the audience listening.... what does all these James have in common? Jesus in their lives. I think there is a ray of hope for the orphans of Taiwan. It is the love of Christ for these children. Hopefully there are Christian homes willing to open their house for adopting children. Afterall, Moses was adopted by the princess. In one sense, we as Christians are already adopted children of God. What better way to bring these children to the Lord's house.

For those with a BIG heart to serve Him and the children in the orphanage ministry, please contact brother Tim at GBC.

May the Lord continue to bless Dr. Miser, his orphanage ministry, his adopted children and his love for Taiwan child adoption network. And may you continue to pray for them.

Monday, January 19, 2009

"Mini" Holy Bible


"Mini" Holy Bible
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I came to hold one tiny tiny key chain holy bible... and I was instantly "wowed" by the craftsmanship. I've seen such thing before but never have a chance to closely take a pick at it. I thought how can all the new and old testament be in such tiny thing / book... In the last few chapter of Exodus, the Lord has given all the plans - detail plans to Moses to build the tabernacle with all its intricate ornaments details...... and here, right in front of me this tiny bible... A friend of mine was also amazed but something popped... you can "smuggle" this tiny bible in a persecuted country such as those located on the "Silk Road" and "Asia Spices" countries. I realize how easy it is for us to obtain the bible in a place like Taiwan or Canada or USA or France! We can even read them online nowadays. However many people around the world are being persecuted for just holding a bible. Hope holding a key chain will be OK! Trusting in the Lord, trusting Jesus as your personal Savior and Lord is the KEY to have eternal life. Now... you can say I carry my bible everywhere I go just as you typically never forget to carry your purse or your cellphone!

Pray that the "Silk road" and "Asian Spices countries that the Lord will open these land to His workers to share the Gospels. Blessings!

Monday, January 05, 2009

Happy New Year 2009 New Year's Eve Fireworks @ Taipei 101


New Year's Eve Fireworks @ 101
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Taipei 101 Fireworks show ushering into the new year... 101 is top 5 building in the world. Taken from a park near 101.

WOW! Enjoyed the 1st dance of the year!

I must say this past year 2008 is unlike previous ones. It has been a very exciting year to some, extremely challenging time for others and it is behind us. Yet, too many things happened on many levels globally. Moreover, I am still counting blessings - especially the people near and far away that God has surrounded me with ~ especially you.

Today I take time out to thank people who have touched my life and to wish you my friends HAPPY NEW YEAR 2009! I wish you could spend more time with your family & friends to enjoy this time of year.

Bonne et heureuse année 2009 à vous mes amis! Meilleur voeux de santé, joie, bonheur et prospérité.

新年 2009 快樂!

God bless you!

LOVE from TAIWAN!

Romans 11:36 - For from him and through him and to him are all things. To him be the glory forever! Amen.

Friday, September 05, 2008

India Short Term Mission 2008

Aloha!

"Grace and peace to you from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ"!! Praise the Lord! I am honored to be part of this year's India mission team and would like to thank the home team, the brothers and sisters at Grace Baptist Church who have supported the team and prayed for each one of us during our mission.



Fertile Terai Soil
Albeit very short, from July 22 – 29, our journey into India was filled with God's amazing Grace and blessings! This was my first trip to India and it has been life changing. Our journey took us through part of the Himalaya range and the fertile soil of the Terai (moist land) full of tea gardens and rice paddies to Jaigaon, West Bengal which is a border town with Phuentsholing , Bhutan .

Mission Camps
On this India mission, we setup several camps -the Vacation Bible School (VBS) camp with Outrigger Island as the theme for the youths, the leadership training camp for church leaders at the local Dalsingpara Baptist Church and a medical team which went to three different off-sites to treat and share gospels to patients. I had the opportunity to serve in the mission module with Bobbie West (our English pastor's wife who is 70 years old). We shared with the youths the different locations around the world where missionaries are serving. Overall, it was an amazing and fruitful VBS. The children are so happy to participate in the various activities such as games, bible classes, music and missions modules. They were so elated to receive gifts made by Taipei VBS students. Many youths had to walk many kilometers from surrounding villages to join our VBS camp. Some kids came from Bhutan . The children's joy and happiness left in me an indelible smile in my heart. Pastor Kunsang Chhophel was gracious enough to personally cook every meal we had during our VBS camp.

God is amazing and wonderful!
During our stay at the church, we were so amazed by God's handling on everything. He never overlook on any details. I was surprised at first that 2 Indian army soldiers came daily to the church compound to inquire about us but it gave us "security" blanket during our VBS camp. They were very gracious and didn't intrude much in our activities. Indeed, there were many security issues in other part of India during the time we were in the country as there were terrorist bombings that occurred in the West and South of India. On the last day as we arrived in Siliguri, our hotel was even locked for a little while due to security concerns. However, we were never in danger. Heat, humidity, clean water and the mosquitoes were on top of my mind. Needless to say, as I sweat a lot in this type of hot weather, I was pretty much a walking water fountain and I also did have a "last supper" experience as my internal system didn't like tap water. I am glad it occurred on the last day of the mission trip back to Taiwan and not at the beginning of the trip.

The Bhutan Gate!
Some of us had the opportunity to visit Bhutan during this mission although very short. I for one had the chance to visit Bhutan twice. It was very brief but I thank the Lord for leading us into the border town of Phuentsholing , Bhutan . The road into Bhutan has an ornate gate. It is a beautiful structure leading into the Royal Kingdom of Bhutan. We prayer walked around the town near the gate and some open shops for the people of Bhutan to come to Christ. We thank God for his walk with us into Bhutan . We were elated to be in Bhutan . It was a peaceful trip.

Share the gospels & be a witness in Bhutan !
The 2nd time, a much larger group (8 people) walked into Bhutan at night. This time a much older immigration officer let us into his country. I told him we just wanted to shop and visit the town and would come back within an hour. It was getting late anyway, who is crazy enough to hide in a peaceful, strange and cold place like the Himalayas . At a clothes store, I met a father and son at the shop's entrance; they are bakers and own a bakery nearby. I managed to speak to the son in English on the beauty of Bhutan , the peacefulness of the country (at night) and their families and I did managed to transition our conversations into spiritual or religious topics. They came from inland Bhutan 2 years ago to start a bakery, are Buddhists and I shared the Gospels to them, telling them the story of Jesus. I did not expect much but prayed for them. They smiled and were happy to hear it; and they led us to walk a short distance uptown to visit some part of town. As we walked up a few minutes later, a stranger came to me and asked if we were Christians. I delayed in my positive reply because I thought he was some border official or cop and we might all end up in jail like the local pastor Kunsang (who spent time in jail for his conversation into Christianity at age 19). However I did say yes as he said to me he was a Christian as well. In the middle of the night, on a dark street, next to a temple, Taiwanese Christians meeting a Bhutanese Christian, only our gracious Father in Heaven can arrange this encounter, a divine appointment. I later confirm his name with Pastor Kunsang (a local Bhutanese pastor) who told me that brother K. is a Bhutanese Christian and he brought his son to our VBS camp. And, some of us wore the cross into Bhutan. We prayer walked for the people of Bhutan around a temple as Pastor David Kong led us in prayers. This second trip was amazing once again.

A Tuktuk Driver & Local Evangelist!
While in Jaigaon - as I was visiting the nearby fruit market in the morning I came across a tuktuk, or 3 wheels auto-rickshaw. I was surprised to read a sticker above the windshield. It is written "Jesus Saves you"... I approached the driver to ask him if he was a Christian and he nodded, telling me he has been saved and that he goes to worship a nearby church. Brother Samuel loves Jesus - hence he put this sticker wherever he drives his tuktuk and wanted to share the gospel with whomever customer the Lord brings to him!

Brother Philip is an evangelist that took part in the church leadership training program. He shared that he goes from villages to villages to bring the Gospels to the local people. He is part of the church planting movement. He told me it is sometimes difficult on his family. He was a drug addict and the Lord saved him from that and never wanted to return to that stage of his life. He has a growing family and asked us to pray for his children to have better education.

God wanted to share with us the few Christian brethrens and share the Gospels to non-Christians in this end of the earth. So yeah our trip into Bhutan and India has been fruitful even though it was really short but the opportunity to share the Gospels to Bhutanese in Bhutan is a privilege never to pass up!

Valuable People
These fellow believers are all very valuable people. People that are made to hold the treasures of God, God Himself dwelling in each by the Holy Spirit and they are not afraid to impact others and share the story of Jesus and the Gospels with others in the area. They are filled with the power of glory of God. May we pray that they continue to impact others and let the great Master, our Father in Heaven mold and shape them in their different ministry.

The True Gate!
And I leave you with the passage of John 10:9 - "I am the gate; whoever enters through me will be saved. He will come in and go out, and find pasture."... Many Bhutanese have yet to know Christ... yet Jesus Christ knows them all already. Pray that many more Bhutanese will be saved by going through the True gate: Jesus Christ instead of the ornate gate to Bhutan .

Thanksgiving!
Thank You Grace Baptist Church! Thank You Teammates! Thank you my friends for your prayers and support! Thank You Holy Spirit! Thank You Jesus Christ! Thank you dear Heavenly Father for an amazing mission!

Sunday, July 06, 2008

Tears in Heaven - Love Never Fails!





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As hectic as it is - it is the most joyous time in both of our families. I pray and bless my brother Jyh Ming (Mingo) and Vivianne on their wedding day. Such a wonderful and lovely couple. The day has been beautiful, the sun shined brightly. A day that God has made and a very good day to get married. To me, any day is good as it is blessed by God. In holy matrimony Mingo and Vivianne were wed - modern Taiwanese style. The one person that is so joyous is our beloved and late mother as I can see tears of joy from heaven... Mingo is my late mother's most precious and beloved son. She is very proud right now. Both of you are blessed to have such a loving family to support you in your new journey together. Whatever you both set your hearts to do - do it with a sincere passion... May God's Grace be with you - Love Never Fails.

"If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but I have not love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing.

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophecy in part, but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. When I was a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind. Me. Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.

And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is LOVE." - Quoted from the Bible (1 Corinthians 13)

Now that you are both united in Holy Matrimony - "Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus." 1 Thess 5:16-18

As the Rev. teaching pastor John Ortberg said it well - "The object of life is to be rich toward God." May the Lord continue to bless both of you toward a rich walk with God all in His mighty Love.

Apart from that - it was uniquely a call for a grand reunion as I met several family members from both side. A Chinese wedding is the fusion of 2 families together. Thank you Lord and Praise the Lord!

Thursday, July 03, 2008

快乐的 Chocolate 巧克力


快乐的 Chocolate 巧克力
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"Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus." 1 Thess 5:16-18

"要常常喜乐,不住的祷告,凡事谢恩,因为这是神在基督耶稣里向你们所定的旨意”(贴前 5:16-18)

Saturday, February 23, 2008

Drawing closer to Christ! (NYMAC English Congregation 2007)

Drawing closer to Christ

The theme for 2007 in the English Congregation was "Drawing closer to Christ" which is a follow up of previous years theme of "Laying the foundation of Christ". And we saw many youths drawing closer to Christ.


Bidding them goodbye

In early 2007, we saw our dear brother Dhoui Chang and his wife Sophia Chen announced that God was leading them in a new direction in their lives which was to serve the Lord in another ministry, at another Church. There were a lot of tears amongst the youths, as the young couple was dearly loved by many of them. They have touched many lives in their ministry on and off NYMAC by being an example of love, wisdom and passion for Christ. This youth pastor has dedicated his many hours tirelessly to minister to these youths from internship to youth pastoral care. Our lives were certainly enriched by their ministries. Our English ministry advisory pastor addressed the youths that we are not the only ones who have ever had to say goodbye. People come and go. They learned first hand what heart break is. Just like the apostle Paul in Acts 20, he had to bid farewell to the elders of the Church of Ephesus, where he served the Lord for a good two years. The youths organized a farewell party where they heard each others’ testimonies and thanksgiving. They hugged, kissed the couple, knelt down and prayed for them that the Lord with continue to bless them in their new ministries. While "what grieved them [the elders of the church of Ephesus] was his statement that they would never see his face again. Then they accompanied him to the ship" (Acts 20:37-38). Unlike the apostle Paul, nowadays we can continue to see each other as we can use our cell phone, MSN or Facebook to "meet" them. It's not easy to say goodbye to people we love dearly however they needed to bid them goodbye. It was a hard process for some of them to deal as it hurts too much. In due course, many of them came to the conclusion that their leaving NYMAC was one of obedience. Our job was to pray for them in their walk with God, to bless them as they depart from us. We stood by the roadside in “cold winter” night to bid them farewell with tears in our eyes (we all need to sweat some during the winter month) waving goodbye to them. In doing so we honored God and we honored them.


Love Never Fails

At that time, we also witnessed the joy of Ruth (Rachel) Hong and Peter Wang united in Holy Matrimony on Feb. 29, 2007. It was a blessed evening. In 1 Corinthian 13 it says “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres." It was certainly a rejoicing moment in time for the newly wed couple as it was one of perseverance, one of patience, one of kindness, one of gentleness, one of faith, one of hope and one of love. They were meant to be together and the Lord answered their prayers. Indeed "Love never fails" for the faithful of the Lord.



Advisory Pastor

We were blessed in many aspects as Dr. Dennis Ngien, professor at Tyndale dedicated some of his time to minister our English congregation inspite of his many other ministries especially his leadership and active involvement of the Centre for Mentorship and Theological Reflection at Tyndale – dedicated to mentoring pastors and church leaders - which invited the great author, preacher, Christian thinker and teacher - J.I. Packer to speak on the subject of evangelism. We are grateful and thankful for Dr. Ngien’s continual support

and dedication to NYMAC’s English congregation. May you continue to pray for him and his many ministries.





Witnessing Baptism

Thanks to the many hours of teaching by sister Chew Lee Teo in ministering to the youths in the baptism class, Sunday school, youth fellowship, we were blessed to witness the baptism of Andy Ho and Bronco Lam in November 25, 2007. Several youths are waiting in the wing to get baptized. So praise the Lord and continue to pray for each one of the youths who have yet to receive Christ as their personal Savior and Lord!





Satellites Go Go Go!!!

2007 also saw our youths participated in the junior softball league competition. It was our 2nd year in the Chinese Christian Softball Association, or CCSA, is an inter-church ministry involving many teams from many churches all across the GTA. The purpose of this ministry is outreaching non-Christians and to get them involved in the church communities. The theme for 2007 was "Be Transformed" - Romans 12:2.

Not only it allowed the youths to have a good time during the summer but through the games they had learned the values of Christ by drawing closer to one another in support, prayers, in unity among teammates and among the churches and they also formed some lasting friendship between inter-church fellowships. As such the youths learned to fundraise by making and selling dumplings and t-shirts. We were blessed and encouraged because brother Amos Chong also came to cheer lead the youths. I must say our team did extremely well compare to our 1st year.



Make me a servant!

These youths have a heart for the

Lord as they serve in many different ministries in worship leading, in piano, in prayers, in ushering, in cheerleading, in newsletter writing and in leading the Friday youth fellowship. Amongst them, we are also blessed to

have the university students Sisters Sandy Yeh, Juliette Au, Brothers Alvin Lam, Japhet Lau and Brian Kang to lead many of these younger kids. We saw many youths come to the Lord as their personal Savior and Lord. I have known them for many years and they not only have grown taller than me but have also grown up in loving kindness in serving the youths in our English ministry by engaging them in several activities such as the Amazing Race which took many teams to compete around the PATH network of underground labyrinth to arrive at the Air Canada Center. The idea of the game is to teamwork together, to answer many factual biblical questions and to eat some lemons to pass various stages. Certainly the kids have a zest for living! I had to keep up at their hyperactivities even going for a Christian (Hillsong & Starfield) rock music concert.


During Thanksgiving, the fellowship went door to door to solicit non-perishable food for the food bank. It was an eye opener for many of them. They also involved themselves in leading the Christmas youth program which was also amazing which draw a big crowd of kids. Everyone took part and it was amazing. Most amazing is that each leader found time to focus on Christ, to dedicate not only 10% of their time to Christ but they spent hours in preparing, in prayers for each of the activities.










Drawing closer to Christ!

So are you brokenhearted? Are you looking for truth? Are you lonely? Are you feeling unloved? In Psalm 34:18, it says "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." - In psalm 145:18 it says "The Lord is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth". So draw closer to Christ as the Lord will always walk with you wherever you go, His passionate love for you never fails. May the Lord continue to be your source of strength in your toughest moment and your rejoicing in good time!


Thank you NYMAC! Thank you Jesus!

I want to personally thank NYMAC to allow me to serve as English deacon for 2007. It was an honor and I also want to thank our pastors Rev. Joshua Yao, Pastor Enoch Koh, Dr. Dennis Ngien, the deacons all the parents in the English congregation, brother Yanan Wu, Amy Chen, Joseph and Angela Cheng and many others who have been tremendous partners in Christ and labored so many hours in preparing to teach the youths, to wipe their tears as needed, to comfort them in times of trials… and lastly also sister Chew Lee Teo, an amazing and wonderful sister in Christ. (Lord don't let her go of NYMAC yet!).


Thursday, February 14, 2008

Happy Valentine's Day - John 3:16

Taken from John 3:16 (New Living Translation)

“For God loVed the world so much that
he gAve his one and
onLy Son, so that
Everyone who believes
iN him will
noT
perIsh but have
eterNal
lifE."

http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=John+3:16

Think about it the word "Valentine" can be formed with John 3:16 - this is quite interesting. The name "Valentine", derived from valens (worthy). Worthy! This verse is the embodiment of God's Love for us that through the Gospels we received, God's Grace for us and we came to know Christ - his only begotten Son who loved us so much that he died on the Cross to cleanse us. He continues to love us to this day. Be a loving and living testimony of God's Love. On another note... Valentine's day should be changed from Feb. 14 to March 16 a.k.a - 3:16 --- easier to remember as John 3:16 will pop out. So they say... Happy Valentine's Day!

Thursday, December 20, 2007

Sacrificial Love, Merry Christmas!

It is written in Matthew 19: 29 "...anyone who sacrifices...will get it all back a hundred times
over." Reminds me of German theologian Dietrich Bonhoeffer as I quoted here from
a boundless article "who wrote a letter to a young bride and groom, advising them on
the nature of the union they were about to enter:

'Your love is your own private possession, but marriage is more than something personal — it is a status, an office. Just as it is the crown, and not merely the will to rule, that makes the king, so it is marriage, and not merely your love for each other, that joins you together in the sight of God and man. As you gave the ring to one another and have now received it a second time from the hand of the pastor, so love comes from you, but marriage from above, from God. As high as God is above man, so high are the sanctity, the rights, and the promise of love. It is not your love that sustains the marriage, but from now on, the marriage that sustains your love.'

Joseph and Tracy got married this past Sat. Dec. 15, 2007 under a tremendous blizzard alert. The morning church ceremony was impeccable (except for the ring being so tightly attached on the ring bearer. I guess the pastor was funny in saying May love bind both of them so tightly as these rings. The banquet went well and Kelly had the bride's bouquet.

Now back to sacrificial love...

Sacrificial love is about work, not play; it's about becoming a servant, not a hero. Jesus said "Whoever wants to be great must become a servant." (Mark 10: 43-45) You can give without loving, but you can't love without giving. Real fulfillment can't be found in self-centeredness." Simply put - when I set about the task of loving I usually end up giving instead of receiving. Love inevitably costs me three commodities that are most precious: my time, energy, and money. I don't part with these easily...because I have them in limited quantities...It's time to strip away the false glamour that the world and sometimes the church put on loving, and tell the truth: true love is sacrificial."

I cried out to the Lord tears of joy when sacrificing my time, energy and money... because it reminds me of Matthew 19: 29 "...anyone who sacrifices...will get it all back a hundred times over." Nobody said love is easy. Peter wondered if it was all worth-while when he asked Jesus, "We have left everything and followed you. What do we get out of it?" Jesus told him anyone who sacrificed because of Him would get it all back a hundred times over. Sacrificial love will cost you. It will cost you in time, energy and money but can also cost you in giving up your pride, giving up your resentment, giving up the pain that someone caused you because you were being stubborn or "right."

I have learned the most profound aspect of love... Christ's love for us. It is unchanging. "Love does not seek its own" (1 Corinthians 13:5).

Christmas is upon us. God's greatest gift for us - in 1 John 4:9-11 tells us:

In this the love of God was manifested toward us, that God has sent His only begotten Son into the world, that we might live through Him. In this is love, not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another.

Christ is born!!!!

John tells us, “Dear friends, since God so loved us, we ought to love one another.”

On another point... I also want to reflect on another sacrificial love... that is Jesus' demonstration of sacrificial love... His hour has come yet he washes his disciples' feet during the last supper. Jesus shows how much he loved his disciples: “until the end.” He dedicates Himself to those he loves most. It is not easy - however Jesus' time, and energy were spent with his disciples. Knowing full well that whatever sacrifices he had He will get it all back a hundred times over.!!!

MERRY CHRISTMAS! TO YOU ALL my Friends!!

Saturday, December 08, 2007

RIP - 親愛的媽咪.....很想念妳


RIP
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My aunt passed away on 6 Dec. from a long battle with stomach cancer. (Sometime I hate this part of December). We should be celebrating Christmas and the joy of giving. However it seems for the past 5 years (for me at least). A loved one is taken away. It's very sad to learn of her passing at such a young age (it's relative to my family). She was a great support to me during my stay in Taiwan a while back... I HOPE once I return to Taiwan in the New Year - I will be able to find and touch the people I love the most. I need to reconnect. The saddest part is that now my uncle is without his most precious love... same as my dad, also a widower. Both losing their loved ones in different life's battles. One taking gun shots another chemo-shots. Both didn't survive the cruelty of life. However that is part of life... comes death. I mean look at the smiles on my aunt's face. Nowadays we cannot get away from cancer. Stomach cancer is still common in Asia due to high salted, smoked and pickled diet. This picture was barely taken a few years back when I visited Taiwan. Seems to be cheerful... nothing will tell you cancer was developing. It came fast. Only a few months since she was diagnosed with stomach cancer. Here is some readings from the MayoClinic about stomach cancer.

She worked so hard to support her family. Stays healthy by hiking up nearby mountains. I remember a while back when she was ecking out a small living supporting my uncle in his entrepreneurship. She opened a dessert restaurant making the most delicious flower tofu I know. I was there to help her out as well. A few years later she closed the business (very good business) to rest and support her husband in his company. There are so many many many good things to talk about her. "親愛的媽咪.....很想念妳" my niece uttered those words. It's so true. Tomorrow 12/12 is the 5 memorial of the passing of my own mother. I am uttering those "親愛的媽咪.....很想念妳" - I've learned that regardless of your relationship with your parents, You'll miss them when they are gone from your life. Love the people close to you... Albeit, my aunt and I, we didn't speak and walk the same faith. She was on my side encouraging me to seek out my dreams and focus on my Christian faith. She cared for me while I was in the hospital after my surgery many years ago. I remember those moments when you are the weakest point of your life lying in a hospital and there is that sweet voice that comfort you to be strong.

"親愛的媽咪.....很想念妳"... what else can I write???!!! Very very very sad and saddened by the loss. Those are powerful words that break hearts. The Great Blessed Assurance is that I will see my own mother in Heaven. Yeah that's right, heaven!

Stay strong uncle, Ting and Yi-Ann! and Rest In Peace aunt! Your family is always in my prayers.